Because anyone is free to post text messages or personal information here though, the developers of the site could not, by any means, verify such information. Register in our comment form to join our list of general and special interest groups where you have the chance.These were people with little or no former interest in pornography. After their trauma experiences, they spend more time watching porn. In many cases a porn addiction takes hold. Like an alcoholic they will sneak porn say they can stop whenever they want to say.Do it in a way that is calm and courteous. Ask for honesty. Be prepared for lies. It is a sad fact that people having affairs become excellent liars. People who never told a lie before in their lives.PTSD has to work at ruining our relationships. It may be through anger or drugs/alcohol. These days, PTSD has been executing its alienation gig by splitting up relationships through pornography and infidelity.If your spouse is spending more and more time with this new "friend then there is probably more to it than mere friendship. Your spouse may feel they have a lot in common with this person, that this person understands them and things they are.